"A youngster, clutching his soldier father, gazes upward while the latter lifts his wife from the ground to wish her a 'Merry Christmas.' The serviceman is one of those fortunate enough to be able to get home for the holidays." December, 1944- source-National Archives and Records Administration (I've always loved this picture. My only question is this: how in the WORLD did she keep up with a toddler in those heels?! Look at those things!)
Okay, so I know this post is late, but by my standards of procrastination this post is actually about a week early. It seems as if the holidays have really just sprung out from a hidden recess and caught me completely off-guard, unprepared as I usually seem to be for their descent. I love the holdiays, Christmas and Easter are my two favorites; however, it seems as I get older, the ability to enjoy them diminishes in the face of what must be done by tomorrow. Tomorrow becomes next week, and before I realize it, I have missed the beauty of daffodils on Easter morning, the anticipation of Christmas Eve, the quiet moment I used to enjoy as a child when we arrived home late on Christmas Eve after visiting my grandparents. It may sound cliche to admit, but there was something sobering, even as a child, about that pause for a moment on my way to a warm home to look at the stars. They always looked so hard and bright against the frozen, midnight blue sky. The odd thing is, it makes you feel infintesimally small; suddenly, you feel your place in the grand scheme of the universe. The infinite number of stars remind you of that hand which orchestrated their placement in the depths of the universe; the untold mysteries of eternity suddenly seem inexplicably familiar. Although you do not understand, you feel. When I tried to explain this to someone once, they asked a bit skeptically, "You thought about all that as a kid?" Well, no, maybe not, but sometimes I think as adults we underestimate children's abilities to understand things intuitively which they can't yet express coherently. Anyway, I promised myself I wouldn't digress into any tangents......So, to get to the purpose of this post (and yes, hopefully, there is one.....) Monday was December 7. Pearl Harbor Day. As an individual who becomes unduly excited by anything remotely connected to history, I was debating about whether or not to post something. But what? A history of events? No, everyone knows the story. Roosevelt's "A Day That Will Live in Infamy" speech? No, too depressing and political. Then, fate made an entrance. I could write about Christmas and D-Day. Genius! I was reading through a book I purchased when I visited the Library of Congress (I hope that if I live a decent life, heaven will be the Library of Congress....). It is entitled "I'll Be Home for Christmas: The Spirit of Christmas During World War II." I had to eat sparingly for the rest of the trip, as I spent most of my money in the bookstore, but with a title like that does anyone really fault me? Anyway, I came across this passage as I was reading through it the other evening. Forgive me as I type it out in its entirety.
In Norfold, Virginia, news that the United States had been plunged into war sobers the mood of the shipmates on the USS Washington. When the radio plays "The Star-Spangled Banner," the men all stand and sing. They realize that immediate action on the high seas is ahead. A few days later, just before Christmas 1941, a writer for the ship's weekly news-letter, Cougar Scream, talks about duty, love, and sacrifice.
"The knowledge of a catastrophe cannot be comprehended within the immediate moments of its announcement. It is one thing to know-it is another thing to realize. We all heard the shocking narration of death, disaster, and destruction as relayed from Pearl Harbor last Sunday. We know it took place. But do we realize its significance?
It is difficult to realize that some of our shipmates of former days and duties are dead; that others are seriously wounded. It seems incredible that ships-of-the-line have been sunk. And to watery graves went men who manned those ships. those men wore the uniform of their country by their own choice, through their own free will. When each solemnly swore: "I do solemnly swear that I will bear true faith and allegiance to the United States of America, and that I will serve them honestly and faithfully against all their enemies whomsoever, and that I will obey the orders of the President of the United States and the orders of the Officers appointed over me, according to the rules and articles for the government of the Navy," he assumed a grave responsibility. That responsibility can be shouldered only by the security of a sense of duty. Duty is any assigned service. Duty is founded upon love or upon fear. A fearful man could not freely undertake this responsibility. he would have to be forced into it because he would be afraid of its obligations. That rules out fear and leaves love only. It might be a love of country; a love of home and family-and their attendant preservation; a love of an ideal and the subsequent pride of maintaining the high standards of that ideal.
Love and Duty have one common denominator-Sacrifice. Both require it; both demand it. Without sacrifice there can be no duty. Sacrifice is in proportion to love. The more we love something, the less willing we are to part with it. Since self-preservation is the first law of nature, it follows that we are least willing to part with our life. To part with life requires a tremendous sacrifice and such a sacrifice demands a tremendous love. Therefore, "Greater love hath no man than he lay down his life for his friends."
The men of last Sunday who could not be bribed by the Grim Reaper to desert their posts; the men who placed duty, love and honor above fear, life, and dishonor; the men whom the Angel of Death tapped on the shoulder and who, without flinching, returned Death's gaze as they stood by their stations-those men were our shipmates of former days and duties; those men laid down their lives for their friends. Greater love could no man have.
We of the WASHINGTON pause with bowed heads to pay homage to our gallant brothers who have "given the last full measure of devotion." May their souls rest in peace through the infinite mercy and love of Almighty God."
I have nothing to add to that which could possibly improve upon it; I simply want to add a few thoughts of my own. There have been countless sacrifices made for each of us; and for those who feel as if there has been no mortal sacrifice made for their security and comfort, perhaps not. I don't know the circumstances surrounding everyone's station in life. However, I feel obligated to add that there have been countless sacrifices made for each of us. Wealth and privilege were and are not guaranteed or promised to any of us, but humanity and the opportunity to both experience and express kindness have been. If kindness, mercy and forebearance seem to be absent, a different sacrifice of Duty and Love has provided for that as well. There was a "last and greatest" sacrifice which provided for each member of the human race. "Sacrifice is in proportion to love." That is what I feel the most at Christmas. A birth meant for a death. A death meant for the benefit of all mankind. It may be politically incorrect to write about religion on something as public as a blog, but political correctness does nothing to salve the pains of the human race, those seen or unseen. Political correctness does nothing to provide for the loneliness felt by so many at this time of year. Political correctness does nothing to remind men of their essential humanity, the humanity which suffers empathy for others, the humanity which is an indication of that from which it is derived. So, politically incorrect or not, I say, "Merry Christmas," with all its inherent meaning.
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What a beautiful post. As thankful as I am for what has been sacrificed and given up for me, I don't think there's any way my mind can truly comprehend it all. Thank you so much for putting my feelings into the words that I can't come up with.
ReplyDeleteP.S. Your description of the ride home on Christmas Eve night is exactly what I would feel at that same age on the way back from Momee's house. Those were the days we didn't buckle up, so I would be laying down (lying down - I never know) in the back of that old green Chevy station wagon, looking up at the stars on that cold Christmas night, feeling the same thing you just described. It seemed like such a long ride. I remember that feeling every year. I hope I always do.
Love you.
What a wonderful reflection, although I crying at 5:45 AM is not my favorite way to start the day. You know, each of us is sort of stuck in our daily grind - however much we enjoy it. Often, we live each day without thinking of the brave men and women of the service. Not being one to particularly support our current war, I DO support our troops. Thanks for reminding me of what I often forget.
ReplyDeleteYou are blessed to have such a cool relationship with your mom.
Thanks.
Wow! You amaze me. You are truly one of the best writer's I know. My favorite line "Wealth and privilege were and are not guaranteed or promised to any of us, but humanity and the opportunity to both experience and express kindness have been." So true.
ReplyDeleteThe more places I visit the more grateful I am for the principles upon which our nation was founded. It scares me to see how far we are straying from those principles. I love love love how you tied this into Christmas and the Savior's sacrifice. Ben read it with me too and loved it as well. THank you for sharing!
Okay, where do I begin. You definitely have a gift. And like you said, speaking of looking at the stars & the vastness of eternity & creation & endless love that our Heavenly Father & Jesus Christ have for each of us, the love that is so great He hung those stars for us-yes, you may not have thought those exact words as a child but you do FEEL it as a child. Can we really fully understand it as adults, it is still based so much on feeling, no matter how old you are.
ReplyDeleteI love this time of year, I could do without so much of the commercialization of Christmas, but I have to admit, as soon as I see the first Christmas decorations out in October (or is it September now? It seems like it moves up every year), I get excited. Not for the presents (although I do get excited for the giving to those I love) but for the spirit of Christmas, the excitement & wonder in children's eyes. They know, they get it, unfortunately we forget it.
Thanks, as always, for the wonderful post. And for the wonderful quote. I loved it all but I especially loved the paragraph about sacrifice, that love & duty both require it. Christ met that also didn't He.
Love you!!!
Thanks Kelly. That was beautiful. I agree with you and what Heather said about the stars. I have the same memories about coming home from my grandparents home out in the country and looking out at the stars. What you said helped me get things in perspective for the Christmas season. Merry Christmas.
ReplyDeleteOkay so I meant to just pop over and thank you for your comment on my blog, but found my self completely wrapped up in your writing.
ReplyDeleteThink I'll stick around for awhile, you put words to many of my thoughts and find myself even thinking a little deeper.
Thank you!